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The Power of Influence: A concept that changed my life.
Posted by Teresia in Business tools, Mindset, Newsletter Articles, Success strategies on September 22nd, 2009
I will never forget one of my first defining moments; the man that I thought I would marry, have children with, buy the house with the white picket fence, the whole shebang – dumped me – yes dumped me, just like that. I think he said something like “this is not working for me anymore” and that was it! But before we parted ways, he gave me the book Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins and said read it you need it. Once I got past my ego, I realized he was right. I was depending on external things to make me happy.
In the middle of the pain of being rejected, I devoured every word Anthony Robbins said about influence and the psychology behind it. Then I stumbled across Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People Seminar and I was hooked. I knew somewhere deep inside that no matter what path I chose to walk, this information would make the difference in the level of my success and the quality of relationships in my life.
Before long I quit university, (I was living in Ottawa going to Ottawa University at time) sold my car and moved to Vancouver to work for the Anthony Robbins franchise. My parents were appalled. “You are quitting university to work for the man we see on TV in the middle night selling this thing called personal power – for $8 an hour!?
I saw it differently – I was going to be paid to go to the Anthony Robbins University and I was creating the opportunity to be in an environment where I could master the art of influence. I was in pure bliss.
Almost twenty years later, I write this newsletter sitting on a patio over looking the ocean from the home of my dreams. I am in a relationship that nurtures my soul daily and I relish in the luxury of the lifestyle that being an entrepreneur allows and experience daily gratitude that I get to live my dream of coaching individuals to live their dreams.
It hasn’t always been an easy journey but I sure wouldn’t have the business and life I have today if I did not master the power of influence.
A few weeks ago ForbesWoman released The World’s 100 Most Powerful Women and one quote jumped right off the page: “Forbes’ Power Women list isn’t about celebrity or popularity; it’s about influence.”
Now that’s really saying something! Think about it. The ability to influence IS power. It enables success. It leads to wealth and opportunity and relationships. It makes things happen.
These ladies clearly know how to make things happen. Want to meet these masters of influence? Here’s a great three-minute video about them.
Whether you want to influence people to buy your products or services or have higher quality relationships, I have discovered there are four key factors of influence.
Factor #1 To build Rapport:
Rapport is the heart of influence. The word rappoarte comes from the Greek language and means “to carry back to another person an experience of themselves”. Rapport building is being willing to understand and experience another person’s view of the world as if you were that person. This is the art of making someone feel comfortable and accepted. Think of this as being “in sync” with someone, establishing a harmonious relationship of mutual trust or affinity. When you get along with someone well, they instinctively listen to and trust you.
To dive in deeper and learn more about the skill of Rapport, check out the book Step-by-Step System, by Marilyn Atkinson, Owner of Erickson International and Rae Choice, Master Certified Coach. The first chapter gives a wonderful overview of some of the key points of Rapport. Email info@erickson.edu to get your copy.
Factor #2. The ability to influence oneself:
Research shows that top salespeople believe that selling is the transference of emotion. They are extremely aware of the importance of being in a powerful emotional state of mind before talking with a customer. The ability to influence ourselves is about learning to manage our own emotions. Sorry to say it wasn’t your ability alone that produced a particular result, it was the emotional state you were in at that moment.
Do you feel in every cell of your body, that your prospect can get what they need from your product or service? Do you believe without a shadow of a doubt that you’re worth what you charge? Influencing yourself on these issues may be the most important factor of all in your ability to influence your prospective clients and customers. Your level of confidence, conviction and congruency must be strong before the influencing process even begins.
This month decide to play with your rapport skills, and ask yourself where are you REALLY with your level of conviction with what you are “selling”. With these two factors you are well on your way to becoming a master of influence! Be sure to join me next month for 2 more critical factors in becoming a master influencer.
In support of your success!

Teresia LaRocque, MCC
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Is your business keeping you from having fun this summer?
Posted by Teresia in Mindset, Newsletter Articles, Success strategies on July 15th, 2009
I love summer – it is my favorite season. I love the long, lazy days in the breezy sunshine… the smell of the BBQ… the sounds of kids playing in the water.
When the sun is shining I want to be playing not working.
As a business leader, there is a TON to get done. I could swear my to-do list is a perpetual motion machine. But my marketing and customer service is getting done – and done very well! – even while I play.
Someone once asked the former president of Coca-Cola: What is the number one skill required for success?
What do you think he said? Communication skills? Strategic thinking? Intense focus? Nope.
He said, with absolute conviction: “What separates those who achieve from those who do not is in direct proportion to one’s ability to ask for help.”
Are you surprised? I’m not. To those of us who have felt the intense pressure of high ambitions and a fast pace – and reached out for help – this makes a LOT of sense.
When we set up a strong network of support around us:
- 1. We make fewer mistakes and waste less time on the learning curve – because things get handled by the people who do those things best.
- 2. We free up time, energy and attention to do the things we do best – our unique abilities that attract more business, pay bigger rewards, and feel great in the process.
- 3. Several things get done at once!
When I started my business 13 years ago, it took me 8 months to hire my first support person – and that was 8 months too long! Along the way, I continued to grow my team, and I don’t know where I’d be today without my powerhouse of support – my virtual assistant, bookkeeper, web whiz and wordsmith. (But I know I wouldn’t be heading out for a long weekend get-away!)
Listen, the Lone Ranger syndrome is a deadly one. Trying to do it all yourself can kill your motivation, momentum, even your business. I see this over and over with my clients. So, why do people have such a hard time with the idea of hiring some specialized help?
Here are the most common excuses I hear:
- 1. Finances – “I can’t afford it.”
- 2. Time constraints – “I’m too busy to stop what I’m doing and find/train the right person.”
- 3. Fear of letting go – “No one knows my business like I do, so no one else can do things as well or as fast as I can.”
- 4. Uncertainty – “Do I really need to hire someone yet? I don’t know if I’m ready for that much help.”
- 5. The unknown – “I don’t know how to go about finding someone, what skills they need, or how to train them. Where do I even start?”
Sound familiar? I have heard these comments more times than I can count – heck, I’ve even used them myself.
But if you really want to have more free time and get more results with less effort, it’s time to acknowledge these larger truths:
- 1. You can hire as little or as much help as you want (and can afford). If finances are tight, start small. As soon as you free up some time and energy, and you devote more to your money-making activities, you’ll be able to afford more help.
- 2. Most people wait until they’re completely stuck before they seek outside support. By then, it’s much more challenging to bring a new person up to speed and create the results you’re looking for. If you do the hiring work now, before you’re desperate, you can create a strong foundation for your business to grow on. As every savvy business owner, you have to do what’s important – not just what’s urgent.
- 3. Concerns that “an outsider’s” work won’t be up to par have immobilized many young businesses. But with the right screening tools and hiring process, that risk can be greatly minimized.
- 4. With a little research and the right resources (like the Hire Vision e-book noted below), you’ll be able to figure out exactly what you need – and exactly how to find it.
- 5. If you want to get to the next level, understand that even a little help can translate into effortless results and a LOT of extra time for you. With the ever-expanding field of freelancers and part-time options, an assistant doesn’t have to be a full-time commitment.
Don’t wait until you’re drowning before you call for help. With a little (or a lot) more help, you can refocus your attention on the activities you really love, and the ones that that really pay.
Ask yourself these questions:
- 1. How much time could you free up if you hired someone? And better yet, what could you do with it?
- 2. How incredible would it feel to know that the drudgery, maintenance, and minor details of your business are being expertly handled for you?
- 3. What would you do differently if you had a capable professional at your disposal? Keep a notepad by your computer and start building a list of everything you’d like to hand off. Go ahead, dare to dream!
- 4. How would it feel to walk into your office, knowing you only need to focus on the things you do best – the things you love to do?
Professionals who work with reliable, capable support people have more time and energy – and sanity! – to contribute to their business, their family, and everything else they care about. It’s called leverage! When you offload the drudgery, you give your natural brilliance a chance to shine.
If you’re still feeling hesitant to hire some support, it’s time get honest with yourself. What fears are holding you back? Write them down, and take a good, hard look. As valid as they may be, see if you can find ways around them. For every problem there are many solutions… you just have to hunt for them.
Don’t you owe it to yourself (and your loved ones) to make your life a little (okay, a LOT) easier?
This summer, set yourself up to accomplish way more in less time – by leveraging the power of a T.E.A.M… because Together Everyone Accomplishes More – and profits go through the roof!
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